~ There are three mysteries in the world. To the bird, it is the air. To the fish, it is the water. To the human, it is himself.~ I’m not much into New Year’s resolutions. If you’re like me, New Year’s resolutions soon fade into the winter cold. What occurs for me as one year ends and another begins is personal reflection . What has been my experience of the previous year? What have I accomplished? What have I experienced? Where have I failed? Where have I succeeded? What do I want to be different — and how? As I review my 2009, the defining word that leaps at me is incongruence! I lived 2009 most incongruently. My desire for 2010 – and my promise to myself – is to live with more congruence. Congruence is a state of harmony or alignment. As a state of being, congruence occurs when Mind, Body and Spirit are aligned. My 2009 was dominated by thinking one thing, and doing another — Believing something, but not committing to it. It seemed to show up most everywhere in my life-relati …